Finding Your Soulmate Has Nothing to Do with Luck



Posted: Wednesday, March 31, 2010

by Elena Krasnova
The Soulmate Guide

A lot of people think finding your soulmate and having a happy relationship is just a matter of luck, that some people randomly "hit the relationship jackpot" and found their "happily ever after". But really, finding your soulmate is all about having the right mindset and taking the right actions.

Three years ago I came to the end of another unsuccessful relationship, and was convinced that it was impossible to find true love. I dreaded the thought of having to do it all over again: go on dates, blab about myself to the same unsuitable guys who would probably not be there after a few months. I just couldn't be bothered to put in the energy, to be honest.
To my great fortune, I was also going through a general life crisis at the time, where everything seemed to be going wrong. I say "to my great fortune" without the least hint of sarcasm, because that life crisis was probably the best thing that had ever happened to me. It put me on the path to become a life coach, which is where I learned the techniques of deliberate attraction. I used these techniques for different areas of my life, including my love life. Two months later I met the man of my dreams - my soulmate Jonathan - and now I couldn't be happier.

Carla had been through several unsuccessful long-term relationships, including a marriage, and was very frustrated with the situation. Unknowingly, she actually used similar techniques that I had, and focused intently on what she wanted in a soulmate. Several months after that she met the man she had wanted for years - her soulmate Alex - and now they are in a harmonious, loving, committed relationship.

Angele had been hurt so many times by different men that she actually made a 3-month rule, which stated that she would not date anyone for longer than 3 months. That's when all the fun of the relationship usually ends, she thought. Realizing that this isn't very fulfilling, she was determined to find the right man, whom she could date for more than 3 months, and used specific techniques to deliberately attract that man. She didn't have to wait long for her soulmate Minas to appear in her life, and they now have been very happily married for 7 years.

Angie used to believe that men were pretentious and just want to manipulate women into doing what they wanted. She created an impenetrable wall to protect herself, and not even a compliment from the opposite sex could get through. Unhappy with her love life, Angie decided that something needed to change. That change was her mindset. Shortly after, she met her soulmate CJ, and proved to her that men can be 100% genuine, committed, and caring. CJ is everything Angie ever wanted in a life partner.

Were any of these matches coincidences? Hardly! They happened as a result of specific techniques of subconscious mind programming and deliberate attraction. I am not saying that this is the only way you could ever meet a soulmate. In fact, it's not necessary to use this method at all if you are already in the right frame of mind about soulmate relationships. Those who didn't use any specific techniques to attract their ideal match are not lucky. They just had the correct mindset which enabled their subconscious mind to attract their soulmate. None of it happened by accident! You will never find a person who is unhappy with his/her love life who will all of a sudden meet their ideal partner. The universe doesn't work like that. You have to get into the mindset first, and then a matching reality will materialize around you. And the first step is to develop the right belief system about relationships, the opposite sex, and soulmates. To find out more about techniques of deliberate soulmate attraction, please visit www.thesoulmateguide.com
Elena Krasnova is an NLP (Neuro-Linguistic Programming) Practitioner, who specializes in soulmate relationships. Neuro-Linguistic Programming Entails changing destructive thought patterns and un-serving beliefs at the level of the subconscious mind. Elena helps people all over the world find their soulmates and attract relationships of their dreams using only their minds.
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